Volleyball is the best sport, its the combination of strength, skill, and teamwork. By forcing you to rely on others it creates a sense of comradery that is unlike most other sports. You can’t do it alone, there are three touches per side and at most you can only get two, forcing teamwork show vulnerability, shows trust, and shows how one can let go of control. Or it shows how powerless you feel when you ultimately lose the point because of something completely out of your control
Out of all the people who could have complain about this, a middle blocker is probably the last person you would expect, if anyone deserves to its the setter. I started playing volleyball about 7 months ago and upon walking into the gym the president of the Drake men’s club looked at my 6’4 self and went “you are a middle now” and I haven’t looked back, but learning the game and how it works, unless the recive is perfect, the pass is perfect, the setter is in the perfect position, and I don’t mess up my transition, only then will i touch the ball. and as a newbie with 0 experience…. It took a while before I hit the ball much less got a kill.
However what do you do on offense when you are not attacking? well you observe. you observe how each point is lost when you should be the ones scoring. Did the front row fail their blocks? did the lib fail to receive the spike? did the pass go off course? A million things can go wrong before a middle is even considered for a set.
And go wrong they did. game after game, slow blocks bad passes, and failed timing lead to me jumping time and time again, but never hitting it over the net. I was so annoyed that the back row just couldn’t give a decent pass. Was it the ball? do we need one of those fancy yellow japanese balls? So I talked to the A-team middle, and started to rant to him:” I just needed to hit the ball at the end! thats all my job is!” and the moment i said that he looked at me and went “wow, you really have no idea how to play this game huh.”
It’s not a solo show
I stood there for like 3 minutes waiting to see if he was joking, How was any of this my fault? So I sat down and watched the A-team game, I knew for a fact his middle was going to get robbed of every set just like I was. His team was just going to pass to the outside or right side because its safer and over the next five minutes, the middle got 4 kills. the whole set? he got 12. play after play after play I watched as he dominated the court, moving faster than the blockers and swinging almost before the ball left the setters hands, a kid that was only two years older than me was doing that. Placing enough trust to swing before the ball was in his sight, taking criticism for every point he lost weather it was his fault or not, and thats when I realized that volleyball is a team game, that cannot be won by oneself.
Volleyball cannot be one by yourself. A Libero can’t give a good pass if they don’t have the front row blocking, a setter can’t give a good set if they don’t get a good pass, the front row can’t attack if they don’t get a good set. and while that’s simplifying things a lot, it’s the nature of volleyball. The give and take, the push and pull, both lead into a beautiful flow state. Where in order to succeed, everybody needs to come together, because without a team, you are just some guy on a court.

